CONTENTS OF THE ELECTRONIC MAGAZINE

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The contents of the magazine shall include:

-      A.-  There are many sites on Internet and books, generally written by Rabbis, in which arguments are given against interfaith marriages, all of which shall be set forth in the Magazine.

Naum Kliksberg is preparing a book that answers each of those arguments, showing that today they are not in force, that an interfaith marriage can be so happy as a non-interfaith marriage, and that in this century interfaith marriages and their children can contribute to a better development of the Jewish communities. The book will be set forth in chapters in the Magazine.

Each reader will be able to compare the arguments of the sites and books against interfaith marriages to the arguments of Naum Kliksberg’s book, in that way he will be able to make his own evaluation and draw his conclusions. Today there is no text, in any language, that gives that possibility.

For interfaith marriages where there is not a Jewish member, this comparison of arguments will also be of great use, since they will find many elements applicable to their situation.


-       B. – Emails that we are sent from many countries by interfaith marriages of: Catholics and non-Catholics, Protestants and non-Protestants, Jewish and non-Jewish, Islamic and non-Islamic, Buddhists and non-Buddhists, Hinduists and non-Hinduists.

-      C. – The contents of 30 books about interfaith marriages.

-      D. – In the Magazine in the section: “Learning to improve the couple. The best couple should always be better”, articles useful for every couple, whether they are or are not interfaith marriages, shall be presented. Where it is appropriate an analysis that can be of particular interest for interfaith marriages shall be added.

Description of the contents of the Magazine:

A.


There are many sites on Internet and books, generally written by Rabbis, in which arguments are given against interfaith marriages, all of which shall be set forth in the Magazine.

Naum Kliksberg is preparing a book that answers each of those arguments, showing that today they are not in force, that an interfaith marriage can be so happy as a non-interfaith marriage, and that in this century interfaith marriages and their children can contribute to a better development of the Jewish communities. The book will be set forth in chapters in the Magazine.

Each reader will be able to compare the arguments of the sites and books against interfaith marriages to the arguments of Naum Kliksberg’s book, in that way he will be able to make his own evaluation and draw his conclusions. Today there is no text, in any language, that gives that possibility.

For interfaith marriages where there is not a Jewish member, this comparison of arguments will also be of great use, since they will find many elements applicable to their situation.

B-

In the Magazine, and only in it, the new texts of the current and of new sections shall be presented:

- Six sections, one for each one of the six most important religions:

• Marriages of Catholics and non-Catholics (Emails that we are sent from many countries by these marriages and their sons, so that we publish them in the Magazine, telling us their own experiences, their conflicts, achievements, and information about the discriminations that exist towards the interfaith marriages in the various communities in the countries where they live).

• Marriages of Protestants and non-Protestants (Emails that we are sent from many countries by these marriages and their sons, so that we publish them in the Magazine, telling us their own experiences, their conflicts, achievements, and information about the discriminations that exist towards the interfaith marriages in the various communities in the countries where they live).

• Marriages of Jewish and non-Jewish (Emails that we are sent from many countries by these marriages and their sons, so that we publish them in the Magazine, telling us their own experiences, their conflicts, achievements, and information about the discriminations that exist towards the interfaith marriages in the various communities in the countries where they live).

• Marriages of Islamic and non-Islamic (Emails that we are sent from many countries by these marriages and their sons, so that we publish them in the Magazine, telling us their own experiences, their conflicts, achievements, and information about the discriminations that exist towards the interfaith marriages in the various communities in the countries where they live).

• Marriages of Buddhists and non-Buddhists (Emails that we are sent from many countries by these marriages and their sons, so that we publish them in the Magazine, telling us their own experiences, their conflicts, achievements, and information about the discriminations that exist towards the interfaith marriages in the various communities in the countries where they live).

• Marriages of Hinduists and non-Hinduists (Emails that we are sent from many countries by these marriages and their sons, so that we publish them in the Magazine, telling us their own experiences, their conflicts, achievements, and information about the discriminations that exist towards the interfaith marriages in the various communities in the countries where they live).

- Other sections:

• Articles (about interfaith marriages) for newspapers and magazines (for their publication)
• What do people who reject interfaith marriages say.
• Interfaith marriages in the world
• Moving stories of discriminations against interfaith marriages
• Knowing orthodox Rabbis and all religious fundamentalisms
• Analysis of international news about health and science in general (it is an interesting experience to read those that are currently presented at the Site)
• Analysis of books and news that occur in the world and are of interest for all interfaith marriages (with special interest in answering each of the arguments of the books against interfaith marriages)
• Other sections shall be added

C-

Additionally to the texts mentioned above, Naum Kliksberg has written 30 books of particular interest for interfaith marriages, the contents of which shall be included in the Magazine.

These books also enrich people’s reflection, whether they form or do not form interfaith marriages.

Out of the 30 books:

- 3 books are about: Interfaith marriages of Jewish and non-Jewish.

(the other 27 books are for all interfaith marriages, whichever may be their members’ religion, a Protestant who married  a Buddhist, a Muslim and a Catholic, etc.).

- 15 books are about: Which God? Which Religion?

In these texts, from scientific rationality, the 3 most important aspects why people believe that God exists are analyzed.

A. For the validity of the arguments trying to demonstrate that God exists

B. For the need to believe that life continues after death

C. For improvements in health, that are unexpected and surprising for physicians in cases of very serious diseases, patients who believe in God attribute them to God.

The erroneous aspects in the main arguments on which most believers and atheists base to believe that God exists or to believe that God does NOT exist are also analyzed.

- 4 books are about: Positive contributions to the development of cultural patrimony of humanity pf aspects of Catholic, Protestant, Islamic, Jewish, Buddhist and Hinduist religions.

- 1 book is about: Elements for a better understanding of the dynamics of all racisms and discriminations (even that existing against interfaith marriages).

- 1 book is about: Children’s education in Interfaith Marriages

In this text it is shown that, if parents act appropriately, the children of these marriages are not hurt, as some say, they enrich with the cultural diversity and with the greater possibilities of getting multiple options, which contributes to a less dogmatic, softer, more creative psychological development, more respectful of different people.

-1 book is about: positive aspects that interfaith marriages have got and that non-interfaith couples do not have.

-1 book is about: What should an interfaith couple do when there are prejudgments and rejections towards their relatives?

-1 book is about: Specific problems in the interfaith couple

-1 book is about: The evaluation that should be made by an interfaith couple before getting married.

-1 book is about: Divorce in interfaith marriages

In this text it is shown that interfaith marriages are not more damaged than non-interfaith marriages.

-1 book is about: Analysis of psychological, sociological and ethical aspects, of Shakespeare’s drama Romeo and Juliet.

A text that leaves a great lesson for interfaith marriages and for the whole society

To see in detail the table of contents of the 30 books: at the Site in Spanish, please click on the MAIN TEXT.

D-

As a psychologist, directing institutions of Psychological Services to Family, advising government on social programs, and giving advise, about couple and family, Naum Kliksberg  studied various aspects of the couple dynamics, in the Magazine the section: “Learning to improve the couple. The best couple can always be better”, shall set forth articles that he made which are useful for all couples, whether they are or are not interfaith marriages. In those texts in which it corresponds an analysis that can be of particular interest for interfaith marriages is added. Some of the articles which shall be set forth in the Magazine are as follows:

1-When divorce is the worst solution

2-Should there be possibilities of divorce, it is important to try to save your marriage resorting to a good psychologist specialized in individual or group therapy.

3-In order to select a psychologist, consult several ones previously. If you choose properly, it will be better for you.

4- In case of divorce, ask for a negotiating psychologist’ s advice. With him, you will achieve a settlement of marital property more favorable for your interests.

5-Effects of divorce on the children.

6-The most frequent conflicts in a couple

7-Breaking out elements of couple conflicts. Signs of alert. What to do before they become more serious.

8-What to do to solve serious conflicts in a couple.

9-Conflicts with the families of the members of the couple.

10-A good couple also has couple conflicts.

11-When it is good and when it is not good to stand in the position: “I do not know, I do not see”. When it is time to be silent and when it is time to speak.

12-The main reasons why people divorce.

13-When a couple fights for children.

14-When living with the spouse is better than divorcing, even if the couple has serious problems.

15-The couple structure.

16-How does the couple evolve

17-How power is managed in the couple.

18-Love in the couple

19-Sexuality in the couple. How to achieve compatibility

20-Sexual disorders in the couple

21-When taking a tablet of the drug sildenafil (such as the very well known “Viagra”) can damage or benefit the couple

22-Infidelity and the couple

23- Communication in the couple

24-Competition in the couple

25-Manipulation in the couple

26-Violence in the couple

27-Values in the couple (ideology, religion, etc.)

28-Money in the couple

29-How to cohabit in a couple

30-How the phrase “there is or there is not love” makes it difficult to understand the couple

31-Hope to expect “the change” in the couple

32-Consequences in health of the stress caused by couple conflicts

33-Feeling well in couple helps to sleep better

34-Consequences of couple conflicts in working performance

35-Holidays in couple, how to prepare them so that they do not create conflicts.

36-You, me, our children, our previous children, our former spouses.

37-The way that leads the couple: from disagreement to conflict

38-The way that leads to see the spouse from an ally to a rival

39-The couple before the various stages in children’s evolution

40-Living or not living together before getting married? Reflections that should be made before living together

41-How must negotiation be in a couple in order to improve the couple.

42-Which is the best equilibrium in the use of “truth and lie” in a couple?

43-Learn because being informed about couples dynamics helps a couple to function better. -